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How does having a baby affect your vagina?
Anonymous

If you give vaginal birth, then the baby would push through your vagina causing it to stretch. If you want more details, try Google. :)

My boyfriend can't come if he's wearing a condom, and has to pull out and jerk himself off in order to finish. He's much more experienced than me, so at first I was worried I wasn't turning him on enough, but he's assured me that it's not my fault, he just "can't feel anything" with a condom. I really want him to come in me. Is there anything we can do? (I'm on BC, but want to use two methods just to be safe.)
Anonymous

Take/use your BC as directed, to make sure it’s at it’s most effective. You could look into using spermicide with your BC. Neither protect against HIV and other STDs.

Me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months now and i have always been quite unhappy with how i look and never confident at all. He always tells me i am beautiful and perfect ect. but i found out recently he has been watching porn,even sometimes soon after sex? But what bothers me the most is we were like talking dirty over skype and he blatently lied and said he was 'getting off' over me, when he was watching porn? I feel humiliated and ugly and idk if he still thinks im attractive?
Anonymous

I can understand where you’re coming from. The fact that he was watching porn doesn’t mean that he doesn’t find you attractive. I mean, men watch porn. They can’t help it. It’s perfectly normal and does not mean that he sees you as “ugly” or not enough or anything like that. They watch porn for the same reasons that we look at shirtless attractive guys. In a way, it’s all make believe. He should be in the doghouse for lying to you. 

My boyfriend and I keep on fighting about if my vagina is loose... Never had sex before and I'm 18... When he fingered me... He said he can put 3 fingers in there... But, we were sitting and my legs were just wide open and I was just that wet. He keep on saying that I had sex before blah blah blah... Please help me :(
Anonymous

Well, I guess I should start out by saying that just because he can fit three fingers in does not mean you’re lose, or a non-virgin. My guy could get 3 fingers into me when I was a virgin too. Your vagina really only gets loose if you have a child. If he can’t trust the fact that you’re a virgin like you say you are, then the two of you should have a talk about trust.

I was hoping you could answer my last question with something...about not knowing how to kiss, how there is no instinct for me...i mean i understand if you cant help, but im just stuck and even a sorry I dont know, would be ok
Anonymous

If you go to seventeen magazine’s website they usually have a lot of tips to help you learn how to kiss/kissing tricks & tips.

what's some sexy foreplay ideas?
Anonymous
Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year now and I love him very much but I've found myself becomming extremely sexually attracted to one of my friends. My boyfriend and I havent been having sex lately because it hurts too much because I can't get wet anymore but if I'm thinking about my friend I can. I dont know what to do please help me!
Anonymous

To help reduce the pain try a water based lubricant. It’s normal to feel sexually attracted to other people from time to time. I don’t know what else to tell you, the choice is yours as far as who you want to be with.

this may be an odd question...when women "squirt" it comes from the urethra, where the urine comes out and when women orgasm, they tend to say it feels like they need to pee, so my question is, how do u know that when u squirt, ur not actually peeing?
Anonymous

They have proven that it’s a form of female ejaculation, and not urine. You could try to find more information about it online.

Im a 16 virgin, my bf and i've been together for about 3 months. last friday, he was fingering me and i was gave eachother orals and he tried to put attempted to put his dick in my vagina as well but we stopped. Anyways, while he was fingering me I started bleeding. And i'm not sure if its my period, because its about that time, but I stopped bleeding the next day. Is the bleeding from the fingering? or am I pregnant? (he came on my belly and tried to insert a couple of times) please answer asap
Anonymous

Being that you’re a virgin, it could of been your hymen breaking causing the blood. Since you said he tried to insert it, (guessing he wasn’t using a condom) I’d say there could be a slight chance of pregnancy. If you’re period is more than a week late, go see a doctor.

what makes a girl fuckable? I really want to be one
Anonymous

Confidence. If you don’t love yourself and think you’re sexy no one else will.

sometimes when my boyfriend and i have sex my stomach really hurts, is that because he is too big and is hitting my womb, and if so how can i prevent it from hurting so much?
Anonymous

I would say work on breathing exercise. Sometimes some positions can cause that pain. Just have him go slower in the positions that cause you pain.

Will I get pregnant if 1 day after my period, my bf and I fingered each other. I did not put semen on my vagina. My second concern is will it be possible to get pregnant if semen enters your vagina through his hands/fingers not his penis. Thanks!
Anonymous

You can’t get pregnant from fingering unless there was semen on his fingers. If semen enters your vagina (any way) you risk the chance of getting pregnant.

I'm a virgin, and this summer i'm planing to lose my virginity to one of my guy friends. we've hooked up a couple of times but we never go all the way because i have some body insecurities. i fear that once he see's me with my clothes off that he would no longer have feelings for me. What sud i do????
Anonymous

Work on your confidence. Don’t wait until the day you plan to have sex for him to see you naked. Be naked around each other way before then.

what's the difference between a girl getting wet and cumming?
Anonymous

When you get wet, your body is telling you that you’re horny and ready for sexual activity. When you cum, it’s because you’re had/are having an orgasm.

I ♥ this blog
Anonymous

Thank you. :)