i've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (only see him over long weekends ever month or so, and summers home from college) for the last 2.5 years. im 21, this is my first boyfriend, and we have yet to have sex. i think i am finally ready but i dont know how to ask, because he hasnt brought it up either so i dont know if he's hesitant or just waiting for me or what. would it be okay to maybe text him and tell him before i see him in person next? or should i just do face to face
Do whatever you’re comfortable with. Texting is usually an easier way and you can continue the conversation face to face if you need to.
Ive liked this guy before, and it didnt work out about three times. We recently started talking after 8 months of not talking and he brought up the idea of being friends with benefits. We are both really attracted to eachother and i know i wont gain feelings back. plus who wouldnt enjoy fooling and fucking without having to deal with relationship problems for a while? ive only had sex once in my life last year. do you think its a good idea?
Do you think it’s a good idea? Think about why it didn’t work out with the two of you… If you’re perfectly capable of having sex with no strings attached than by all means go for it, have fun and be safe! If the guy isn’t the best choice maybe skip him and find someone better worth having lots of fun with.
this guy once said i have a "fat" vagina and ive been pretty insecure since.. to me it looks normal but not as small as some girls have it. do you think every guy will notice it? is it bad?
Fuck him. Don’t let one asshole get to you like that, your body is beautiful how it is. It’s unique and it’s yours. Don’t compare your body parts to others because everyone is different in their own ways. No it’s not “bad” you’re fine. :)
this is probably really weird but I'm 18 and never had sex, i'm really self concious about my vagina? idk thats weird i feel like its not tight or anything like real loose and not nice like in the pictures i see. I'm also really super scared a guy will be repulsed by the fact when he has sex with me i'll bleed (bc im a virgin)
Not all virgins bleed, it depends how ‘broken’ your hymen is. A little blood during sex is nothing to be repulsed by, we all have blood flowing through our veins. Unless of course he’s one of those people who faints when he sees blood… Your vagina is a muscle and is naturally “tight” Of course to a few fingers it could feel a bit lose until a penis is inside and then it can be a bit of a tight fit.
Hey so i lost my virginity a few weeks ago and it was 2 days after my period stopped, i started bleeding again for a few days after then i had sex again once it had stopped. Its been about two weeks now and im still bleeding as if i have my period again but im not due to get it for at least another week. help please
Were you having safe/protected sex? Also do you tend to have irregular cycles?
So recently I have been very horny and such and I dont know how to pleasure myself. Im so inexperienced 'down there', masturbating wise. I have never done it before but I really want to. Any advice? Oh im a girl btw lol
I don’t personally see fingering all that stimulating when it comes to masturbating. Your clit..
http://sexadviceblog.tumblr.com/image/5921795663 as shown there is going to probably give you 90% of all your pleasure. Try circular motions and see how it feels for you. I know a lot of people who use an electric toothbrush or the water from their shower head to also pleasure themselves. It’s all about self exploration, take time to figure out what you like. :)
So basically I've never sucked dick and I want to know how... I know I should check your FAQ but I can't access it from the app.... Help??
i never let my boyf go down on me bcos i'm self conscious of him being that close to my vagina as i'm scared it one smells funny (even when it's been freshly washed),two i've missed bits when shaving and three just the overall look of it. he's been down on me before but i just can't enjoy myself as i'm worrying too much what can i do?
If he’s been down on you before and hasn’t come back up repulsed and full of complaints you’re obviously fine just how you are. Bodies naturally have a bit of an odor, as long as you’re clean and healthy it’s nothing to worry about. Hair is natural as well and if a guy can’t handle a bit of hair he isn’t mature enough to be going down on you at all. I’m sure he’s not 100% hairless all over either. We might not like the way our bits look, but to a straight man, that’s one of the best things he can lay his eyes on. He’s seeing you naked and is most likely incredibly turned on because of it. Relax, it’ll all be ok.
So i dont know if this is a question that i should be asking a random advice blog but i am kinda stuck right now. so for the last month or so i have been hanging out with this guy, a close friend. and we are now friends with benifits. i have already done alot of firsts with him and he wants to have sex and so do i, but i am stuck because i dont know if i want him to be my first. it will be something i never forget. do you think it would be bad to loose my virginity to a friend? i do trust him.
There’s no harm in asking. :)
I don’t see “virginity” as something you gain nor lose. I see it as an experience shared between two people. Like the fist time you learn to drive a car, or the first time you’ve tied your shoes. Yes you usually always remember your first time and as long as it’s with someone you trust and share a mutual respect with, I don’t see a reason to regret it later down the road. The choice is of course up to you.